Monday, December 25, 2017

Too old for love

what is the age for love ?

many people have this encounter with love in their teens. some in early teens and others a bit late. Teenage seems to be the right age to be bitten by this love bug. it just feels right. the young folks are so full of energy. they are head over heels when they are in love. This is the age of finding love,  a sweetheart for life or breaking heart and keep trying.  so we can safely conclude that teenage is the right age for love. but then teenage love is very fragile. there are only a few accounts of teenage love surviving a life time.  Then we come to the young Adults. These would be from the 20 to 30 age group. many people do happen to get married here.  They are quite mature in their quest for love. They are clever to break love in various stages like a crush, infatuation, dating or just seeing each other before they come to the conclusion that it is love. if you haven't found love by now then the chances are that you would never find love. many people around this age prefer to just get married and then love their partner. they find it easier that ways.  For few years now I have been working on getting over the idea of love. at 36 that seems impossible. it is not like I did not fell in love. It just did not happen for me. not the way I would want it to be. so I have been really confused about it. what is it if it is not the warm feeling in the heart. I don't think there is any age for love. Nor does love needs to be expressed physically. sometimes its just a thought shared between two people. a very personal thought though. The general mass wouldn't agree to this thought because they don't see or feel what we do.  meeting someone as amazing as you has ignited that fire in me.  you might disagree but this is love for me. and I see it in your eyes.

Saturday, January 7, 2017

Success ?

"those who suffer must do so at their will for suffering has to come by choice and only then the fruits it bears are sweet but for any suffering other than of choice is a pain"

I am not sure if I had copied this from somewhere or if they are my original thoughts. I was just browsing through my old posts and came across this in a draft. 

How true is this for anyone and everyone, for any and every situation. sometime I surprise myself by my abilities with words. a thinker I may be but without any recognition I am just amongst the many alike. brilliance is not in the act but actually in the demonstration of it. if the world cannot see me for what I am than it is not the world to be blamed. the fault lies within me. I have failed to provide a demonstration for the world to see.

so I will have to work on the act of demonstration while I also work on the act and in combination only I will be able to find the success. And with success recognition will follow. 

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