now dat i have been left alone by her, here i am back again..
so i am suppose to write something for her
but i dont know what to write .
who is her ?
she is the shadow of my imagination
she is a part of me which i dont know existed until i met her , she is very special to me .she is the one who doesnt want me to be but just lets me be myself with her .she will argue she will fight
she will demand , she will do all that and more, she will just make me suffer but in the end she is the one who loves me and her love is enough for me to bare it all .
what is love ?
some would say love is suffering and many would agree.
only for this reason people think love to be bad cause it makes us suffer. Its is really ignorant to think of love this way. True that it makes us suffer but it also makes us strong. Suffering is just a part of life, part of growing up, making a place for yourself. For those who are afraid to suffer, perish just like that as the castle made of sand in a gust of wind blowing it away. Nothing is for ever not even love & so there is heart break.
love as i put it just a name given to a very entwined relationship between two individuals who are part of that relationship by choice. every time every thing is not in accordance with us. when this happens we need to adjust ourselves according to the situation, yes ther has to be compromise between both the parties, And if this doesn't happen then there is a fallout.
The relationship suffers, hearts break. Its ego that doesnt allow us to make the necessary adjustments so we ourself are to blame for it . so if it is our own doing why dont we stop it ? why do we let our self suffer . The truth is subconsciously we are traind to suffer from the very moment of our birth. The mother who gives birth know how much she had to suffer, but the joy of being a mother has made the suffering insignificant.
All the pain and all the suffering we go through is just for that moment of joy tha moment of glory in some cases which doesnt even last more then a second or so. but we all are willing to endure it ..

cause we all are in love, cause we all know how to love , cause we love to be loved ..

love is just love nothing else..
I would suffer a thousand lives for tha one moment of glory ..one joy ..enough for a life time ..