"If the pain doesn't kill you, it will make you grow stronger"
You always get pain when you are hurt. Pain is required to heal or You will always keep hurting yourself, causing a greater damage than the pain itself does. There are just so many ways in which a human being can be hurt.
First there is the physical hurt. A bodily injury is easily detected, causes as much pain as it hurts. The cure is as easy as finding the cause. In time the healthy body heals itself. The other types of hurt are more complex in their form & affect on a human being. Of this the first one to come across is-
Hurt of soul:- Our soul gets hurt when our trust is broke, when our heart is broken, when we come face to face with treachery. If undetected this can eat up a person from inside causing a slow everlasting pain. The slower the pain sets in the slower it is cured.
Hurt of mind:- Usually with excruciating pain the hurt of soul is followed by the hurt of mind, where the state of sanity is lost. Here even though there is pain but its awareness is reduced by the state of mind. It can also be caused due to some shock, a bodily injury, bad news, etc.
Social hurt:- It happens when you lose respect, your position in the society you live. It can be caused by public humiliation. It takes ages to earn respect but it can all be lost in an instant. Social hurt can have a negative impact on the individual. It can collectively hurt a persons mind and soul, eventually driving the person towards hurting himself physically.
Financial hurt:- In today's money minded world, the financial hurt can easily be identified. It is just one of those things which we bring upon our self. It can really break a person with a weak heart and soul.
IF the source of pain can be traced out then a suitable cure can be nursed for it. Pain can also be identified by the kind of hurt it is caused by. As humans we are born with inbuilt capacity to endure pain. But we constantly need dosage of pain to increase our capacity to endure pain, just as being a vaccinated for a disease. It is essential for human survival, cause death is caused in our body when the pain becomes unbearable. So it is said "If the pain doesn't kill you, it will make you grow stronger". In life many people do not get the opportunity to feel all the kind of pain and live to tell the tale. I feel lucky to have come so far. Every time it seems i cannot take it any more and every time the pain takes me to the brink and gives away, letting me live for the coming round.
"The only thing temporary is pain".
