Conversation

Now i dont know what took it in that direction , but it ended on a very good note.it gave me another insight on a woman's mind. i would like others to have the same feel as i did so i will just paste some parts of the conversation i had with someone.there is nothing much to write about her but just that she is a good friend of mine.

me : hi
aasma : hello
aasma : what's up?

Then we continued our general talk as it kept getting interesting, i started telling her about what kind of authority we get to enjoy at work and all that stuff

me : i do have yahoo on my system
aasma : i know :D
me : from our system we can still log in to orkut n stuff
aasma : coool
me : on all other systems in other departments it has been restricted
aasma : teri wud be gf ne haan kar diya tab to phir gaya teraa kaam... waat lagegi kaam ki... u'll be chatting all day :P
me : : is this a joke ?
aasma : nahi... warning :P
aasma : :D
me : dm
me : i thought it was a joke
me : so i was about to laugh
aasma : duffer
me : but now i cant :-s
aasma : =))
me : she is acting weird
aasma : weird? :-S
me : and ne ways my mind is shooting up
me : no time for ne thing else
me : now concentrate on work
aasma : famous girls' treatment
aasma : if u survive this u will survive anything
aasma : yes concentrate on work
aasma : :D
me : :) i know
me : i'm not a silly kid
me : i know wht i want
aasma : yes baba
aasma : mujhe lecture mat jhaad x-(
me : :P
me : i just sholdering u
aasma : sholdering
me? :-/

the conversation gradually came to a point where i was turned off by the statement she made..i started thinking about it , does it have to happen this way all the time ...

aasma : i dont make big deal about anything unless n until really attached to a personaasma : dont sweat it
me : :
me : two in just one day
aasma : zyaada funda jhaada? :P
me : dis is crazy
aasma : two?
me : yeah
me : she said some thing like dat
me : which really turned me off
aasma : what did she say?
me : now u :
me : she doesnt care for the person just the party so she is going
aasma : and why wud that piss u off?
me : didnt u get it ?
aasma : nope
aasma : i dont tell even my bf sometimes why n what i doing...
me : u see u are also just like her
me : so it make two in a day
me : :
aasma : so nah i dont understand why wud that piss u off
me : i'm a very simple person
me : a ppl person
me : i give importance to ppl
me : more than things
me : or occasions
me : or events
me : or any thing
me : everything else in immaterial
aasma : can i talk now?
aasma : thank you
aasma : see...
aasma : my point of view...
aasma : i have a life where in i'm not answerable to anyone
aasma : it's MINE
aasma : sometimes i do things only for 'myself'
aasma : not caring bout what anyone on earth wud think
aasma : i say...
aasma u r sad.. do something impulsive that u really want to..
aasma : may it be try dancing or online flirting or weed....
aasma : anythingaasma : where i dont answer any freakin soul
aasma : so if anyone questions that free will
aasma : i do say stuff that wud piss the person off
aasma : so that never questioned again
aasma : that's it
aasma : me done
me : free will
aasma : yes
me : it is just being weak
aasma : if doin something that doesnt harm anyone but makes me smile.. i'd do it
aasma : i wudnt call myself weak if i dont vent out my personal life
aasma : i wud call myself badly stressed out and disoriented
me : what do u term as harm ?
aasma : if i do drugs n my guy doesnt get to know... that's harm
aasma : if i sneak out n elope then for parents it's harm
me : so what about free will ?
aasma : free will doesnt mean u'll hurt ppl
aasma : it's just something that will de-stress
aasma : as simple as that
aasma : free isnt % free... like vacuum isnt % vacuum
me : why and how do ppl get hurt ?
aasma : not answering anymore questions
aasma : it's like goin to shrink
aasma : n i hate it
aasma : :
me : well any ways i got my point across to u
aasma : nope
me : now you know why i got pissed of
aasma : i'd still preserve my life n free will
aasma : i still think u shudnt have got pissed off
me : so what ever u have said becomes null n void
aasma : why?
aasma : put ur 'point' across clearly i'll understand it better
me : if you are going to attend someone's birthday party
me : and its purely because of the party and not cause u care about that person
aasma : some ppl do that...
me : so its going to hurt that person if that person got to know
aasma : like i chat online with a lot of ppl...
aasma : ohhhh
aasma : now i got ur point
aasma : i thought u were hurt cuz
she is goin
aasma : ye pehle bolne ka thaa na!
me : bullshit
aasma : what bullshit?
me : she has her freedom
aasma : how wud i know ur point without u telling me...
aasma : i assumed ki u dint want her to go to some dumb party
me : understanding my dear
aasma : that's why u r pissed off n stuff
aasma : not antaryami to understand what u think right!!!!
aasma : :
me : did you read what i wrote above befor u got started ?
aasma : yesaasma : u said she is going for the party not for the person
aasma : so i assumed u r pissed off ki she attends random parties
aasma : not a good girl sign
me : i said read just above wht i have writen befor u started
me : u are going way above
aasma : understand my dear???
me : grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
me : wait i will paste it again
aasma : why cant u just put it here again? instead of confusing me x-(
aasma : so nah i dont understand why wud that piss u
me: i a very simple person
me: a ppl person
me: i give importance to ppl
me: more than things
me: or occasions
me: or events
me: or any thing
me: everything else in immaterial
aasma: can i talk now?
aasma : i thought YOU wanted importance here
me : ME i do not exist
me : i always believe in US
me : WE
aasma : dint quite realise u dint like her not givin importance to someone else pissed u off
aasma : well from that person's point of view... it's wrong...
aasma : damn wrong...
aasma : but the question here is.. will that person be happy if he/she sees her?
me : why the hell den d invitation for ?a
asma : if it makes someone happy thn faking isnt always wrong.. it's makin someone else smile.. simple
aasma : dude... sometimes girls get invitation just like that
aasma : trust me...
aasma : a nonsocial person like me gets invited to parties often n i turn them down... so a pretty girl in mumbai will be loaded with offers sure
me : guess what
me : ??
aasma : what?
me : you have got your shot to become famous
aasma : huh?
me : :D i going to put this conversation on blog
aasma : fuck u!!!
aasma : no way!!!
aasma : dont u even dare do that
aasma : come on!
aasma : please!

yeah she didnt want this conversation to be posted here, but then i convinced her when i told her that i will change the name, and no one will know it was her