a girl & friend

A man without a woman is like a sea without an island, a solar system without a sun. Without a sun life wouldn't have been perpetuated on earth. The importance of a woman cannot be denied in my life. Yet i am a man without a woman.
They say "Every sucessful man has a woman behind him". A simple statement which is open for people to hold their own meaning.
First- A woman makes a man sucessful
Second- A women is after a sucessful man
I fall in the first catogery. I need my woman to become the man I truely am.

Those who know me personally also know that I don't like to be ordered around & I question the authority. I dont know the reason for it , but she was asking me not to attend her show. Which i was not planning to do knowingly. But she was insisting on it, to an extent where she even threatened to back out of the show. I asked " are you ordering me ?"
"yes i am" she replied. It was some thing I was expecting from her, but wasn't sure when she would be using the authority which i have given her over me. This came as a surprise to me and mind it, it was a pleasant surprise. Just to make sure I questioned her authority " who are you to be ordering me around" As if she was expecting this question , had an answer ready for me "I am a girl & your friend".
Now here is one statement which can mean a world to me or its probabbly nothing. What ever it is, only time can tell & her.
For me I have already played my cards, I want her to be more then just my girlfriend. But for now a Girl & Friend will do.